Tackling Ambivalence – Part 1 What do you do when someone isn’t sure they want to work on the relationship? I can’t tell you how many times I’ve heard this.… read more →
Help Couples to Have a Healthy Marriage without Being Their Mediator My wife, Michelle, and I were new at teaching a class for couples in distress. We had just finished… read more →
Help Couples with Fair Fighting Rules I used to think that my marriage was great because we didn’t fight. Ok, maybe we would snap at each other once in a… read more →
A View on Sex for Christians God likes sex. Does that seem like an odd statement? If I said that God likes healthy marriages, I don’t think that would raise… read more →
Why Empathy is Important Empathy is to marriage what oxygen is to air. We need oxygen to live and it’s a critical part of the air that we breath. We… read more →
How to Help a Couple with Quality Time I took a selfie of my wife and I recently. At the top of the page, you can see Michelle and I… read more →
How to End a Marriage Mentoring Session Here’s the situation – you’ve met with a couple, perhaps for the first time. Maybe you’ve met with a small group of couples.… read more →
One of My Favorite Bible Verses About Love How does love grow? I want my love for my wife to continue to grow, every day. I want my wife’s love… read more →
4 Times to Refer Couples to Professionals So many times I hear that mentors don’t feel qualified to be working with a couple that is struggling. I admit that I… read more →
I was at a wedding and someone came by with a video camera and asked if I had any advice for the newly married couple. I replied, “Tell each other… read more →
