I am always looking for great tools that I can use with couples. I have found a tool that is a great way to reestablish connection in a marriage. It’s… read more →

I want to help others. I suspect that you do too. Did you know that your impact may be greater than you think? I’ve met with a number of people… read more →

  Love Is a Choice, Even When You Don’t Feel Like It When my wife and I were going through marriage problems, the last thing that I wanted to hear… read more →

We met with Tom and Laura to talk to them about their marriage. Both of them felt stuck. Neither of them was very good at validating each other or even… read more →

Trust After Sexual Addiction? Can you re-established trust after Sexual Addiction? What are the steps that are necessary for optimal healing? In a meeting with a pastor from my church… read more →

Self Control Can Help Your Marriage I hear stories all the time about how couples have lost it in an argument. One of them hears something that triggers their emotions… read more →

I want great group participation when we lead a marriage small group. Who doesn’t? I’ve noticed a common behavior in the small groups that my wife and I lead. One… read more →

  Should You Make a Confession to Your Partner? My wife, Michelle, and I went on a beach vacation in early January. It was great to get away and to… read more →

  Ok. Here’s a typical scenario. We meet with a couple and have a great conversation. One of the last things that we do is talk about what they should… read more →

  Genesis 2 – God Nailed It! Beth and Paul were sitting on the coach in front of me struggling to connect. They both felt dismissed, ignored, blamed, angry and… read more →