When we were new to mentoring, we often weren’t sure what to do next. Someone would say something and I would think, “What do I do now?” I wasn’t very proficient… read more →
When couples haven’t decided to change there are some very common behaviors. As a mentor, you are going to see these. I would bet that you’ve experienced some of them!… read more →
As part of our Christian mentoring resources, I want to talk about if someone has decided to change. You will be a much more effective marriage mentor when you recognize… read more →
Understanding the process of change is key for marriage mentors. This will help you to know what tactics to apply and when to apply them. Before I understood this, I… read more →
One time we were meeting with a couple that knew they weren’t doing well, but they didn’t know what to change. We asked them how much time they spent with… read more →
Be Prepared for Relationship Complexities Couples have multiple behaviors that need to change. They are probably not aware of all the behaviors and thoughts that will need to be examined.… read more →
Be Prepared for Relationship Complexities I know one couple that struggled with their marriage for over 15 years. They were about to get a divorce. They got to the point… read more →
Be Prepared for Relationship Complexities We offer a Christian mentor program. We want mentors to be prepared to meet with couples. It helps to prepared by understanding relationship complexities that… read more →
Michelle and I met with a couple that were fighting about how much time they should spend at her parents when they visited that weekend. We tried to get them… read more →
We teach a marriage education class for distressed couples twice a year. One couple told us this story. She didn’t tell her husband they were going to a marriage class. She… read more →
